What's the point of eating white rice if you have no intention of eating it with stew or sauce? Exactly, no point. That's what orals is to coitus, sauce! It adds spark to the other room action and sends you past cloud 9 right into cloud 90. If done well, you can experience the kind of orgasm that'd make you feel like you've been a virgin all your life. Yes!
Mastering the act of giving oral sex and not just receiving is pleasurable as well. It's orgasmic to watch your partner experience things only you can make him. It'd make your lady parts cry a river watching him moan, gasp for air, bite, pant or do whatever with every lick, squeeze, grip, kiss, and tease you give him below the belt.
You'll have the power to make him scream to high heavens that you are his mummy even without asking, 'Who is your mummy?' as they'd ask, 'Who is your daddy?' Power is good and that I hand you; the power to give him a blow job that'd blow his mind.
Here's how to give it to him like he has never had it and will never have it unless it's with you. If you do as I say, you'll be on your way to the Guinness book of record as the girl who blows the minds of men with her blowjob prowess. LOL.
On your marks, get set, ready and go!
Stall/Tease
Remember how you wait till you're done with you meal before you eat the meat? The wait heightens the satisfaction you get when you finally savor the meat. Use this technique for a blowjob and you'd never go wrong.
By all means, do not yank off his underwear and go straight for his dick. Add some drama to it girl! Delay, make him practically beg for it. Stall and tease, the fifty shades of grey kind. The delay will increase the pleasure it will give him when you finally get to the promised land.
Fumble with his belt with your mouth and occasionally with your hands. Make removing it off take longer than it should. He'll attempt to help, do not let him. By this time, you can feel the bulge of his erect eggplant. Oppssss girl, look what you've done!
When the belt or trouser (if he has no belt on) finally comes off after what will seem to him like forever, don't go straight to the dick. Take the longest route to it.
Suck his dick through his underwear. Give it to him and not give it to him at the same time. It will frustrate him and pleasure him all at once. It will feel to him like he'll go crazy if you don't rip his underwear and send the goodness to his man parts.
At the point when it feels like he can't take it any longer and he's actually going crazy, arrive at the main thing.
Don't make the wait too long so it doesn't become too frustrating. I advise 3 minutes at most.
Predictable sex (oral, virginal, anal or whichever) is a waste of sex. When the mood is set, he'll expect you to do certain things to him in certain ways. Do everything but what he expects and how he expects it. His mind will be blown.
Eye Contact
Orals or the real thing, appetizer or the full course meal; eye contact is key.
Making eye contact with your partner during a blowjob you intend to be mind-blowing redefines the whole thing. It creates a connection, an understanding and essentially, a bond.
It also serves as a way to communicate. It's said that the eyes are the windows to the soul and I can't agree more. Eye contact with him while still focusing on all the action will help you know if he's enjoying what you are doing and if not, what he enjoys most and what barely has an effect on him.
It's also not a bad idea to actually communicate. If you are not sure, ask if he likes what you are doing.
Act Like Your Life Depends On His Eggplant
If you want it to be mind-blowing, do not make it seem like the blowjob is a chore. It puts a lot of men off.
Even if you are not, make it seem like you are enjoying it more than he is. Close your eyes at intervals, move sensually, moan softly, give him dirty looks and suck his dick like you are sipping life. Act like it's the only way you can stay alive.
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It'd help to pretend that you are eating a lollipop. Treat his dick like you would a delicious lollipop. Move your mouth upwards and downwards taking his dick in and out sensually. Use lots of saliva. There can never be too much.
For extra action, apply something yummy and sexily lick it off. It could be peanut butter or whatever you like. Whatever you decide, make sure it's not peppery or minty. If it is, it'll still blow his mind but in a way that'd make him never want to see your face again.
Now we don't want that do we?
Take It As Far In As It Can Go
Take his dick as deep down your throat as it can go. While sucking and repeatedly moving your mouth forward and backward on his dick in your mouth, make it go as far in as it can get. It is called deep throating.
As there is more saliva at that point and little space, it will give him intense pleasure. It's also tighter when you take it deep down and tighter means more pressure on his dick. More pressure on his dick means more pleasure. Deep throating is a major turn on for most men and can be for you who is doing it too.
Do not go all the way at once. Slowly take him deeper and deeper till you reach your limit. The more you practice, the more you build up your tolerance and the deeper you can go. How far it can go also depends on the size of his dick.
Know your limit so you don't gag or vomit.
Don't Ignore the balls
The balls are part of the family too, do not leave them out. Suck, lick, kiss and swallow (of course I don't mean like fufu). Try to fit everything into your mouth and play with it. If you won't be tender with the balls, kindly ignore them. They are very very sensitive. You want to blow his mind and not castrate him.
The Tip Is Your Friend
The head of a penis has been scientifically proven to be very very sensitive as it has the majority of nerve endings. It is to the penis what the clitoris is to the vagina.
Lick, kiss, suck, make circles on it with you tongue, stimulate it and generally give it a lot of attention.
Be Teethless
When giving a blowjob, especially one you want to be mind-blowing, leave your teeth out of the action. Everything below a man's belt is sensitive and it will do you both a world of good if you leave sharp/semi-sharp objections out, including your teeth; especially your teeth.
If you find it hard to do, fold your lips into your mouth. That way, it cushions the teeth.
Take A break
Yur jaws will get tired. At that point, take a break from the blowjob. While at it, do not stop all the action and completely pause.
Give him a hand job while your mouth rests, kiss his inner thighs, ears, face, lips, and places that have more effect. Do something to him.
Swallow
Yuck! Ew! Gross! I know, I know. Women find the idea of swallowing cum after a blowjob very disgusting. Many won't do it.
You are not many women. You are one woman looking to give him a mind-blowing blowjob.
Men love it when you swallow cum. It's said it makes them feel a deep connection and most find it extremely sexy.
However, do not do it if you aren't comfortable with it.
PS:
The wetter the better. Use as much saliva as you can. Lubricants also comes in handy.
Be confident. Don't fear you won't get it right.
Don't worry if it isn't great the first time. You will get better at it.
You don't have to give him a blowjob if you don't want to.
It'd be even more mind-blowing if you are very enthusiastic about the blow job.
Did you find this read informative? Is there anything I left out or something you'd love me to write about next? Let's proceed to the comment section as usual!
